What is the exact meaning of this Spanish phrase?

the v and the b are pronounced similarly, in Spanish, hence the spelling confusion. She is doing the best she can. You understand the misspellings, love her for them. She says it pains her when you tell her those things. You lambaste her for such a small failing. You should see some of the spelling delirium on Spanish language chats. I noticed you do not say she is a friend. She is a modest person of modest means and education. Embrace her kindness to communicate with her, or you will intimidate her away. Yes, she is using it properly. We at times, need to adjust our understanding and appreciation of foreign languages and phrases. She does not say that your blandishments infuriate her, she doesn't say that you give her pain, she says the simple truth. Most of us should be that forthcoming.